It happened. Again.
I went out on a great date with a guy on Saturday... great chemistry, laughed the whole time, even missed the movie because we were enjoying each other's company so much. We walked around downtown Spokane, enjoying the weather and the night. Right before we parted ways, he said he'd call me.
Then... the next day he suddenly decided that there was "no connection." He complimented me on everything under the sun, and said I'm a great mother and that my boys are lucky to have me, but he just didn't see a future there.
I'm reasonably attractive. I'm nice. I'm funny. I'm a good person. I care about myself. I work hard. I am honest. Direct. Caring. I'm not perfect, but I'm not a bag lady, either.
And I'm still single.
I am not wallowing... I'm just curious. What is it, exactly, that makes children so scary to guys? Why would they burn so hot, then turn so cold?
Again, I'm swearing off dating for awhile. I need to detox my head from all the rejection, and the frustration. I am going to take the opportunity to build myself up instead of tear myself apart about this. Finishing the office re-model, work on school, maybe even get my washer fixed and a new vacuum. I lead an exciting life.